Tuesday, January 24, 2017

Marriage


   Someone has rightly said, “Marriage is an empty box”. Obviously! Marriage is an empty box and that empty should be filled by the couple. The box should be filled and tight with love, care, trust and happiness that cannot flow out.
Marriage is union between individuals that creates kinship.

while for someone who doesn’t understand what is all about marriage  is going to be a prison because they don’t have mutual understanding, cannot deal with a situations, cannot balance between good and a bad whereas for some marriage is a happiness because they know how to balance between the good and a bad. No matter what, all we need to do is, “ know how to handle the situations”.  There is no love in marriage because love is in the people and those couple turns their love into marriage.

Marriage is a commitment between two souls. It is a decision that an individual’s choose to stay together forever and stand by each other no matter how hard the life is. Couples promising to protect each other, promising to hold each other whenever husband or wife fall. Marriage should be a reason to smile each day and live with a greater happiness.
One need not be pretty to be a partner. What matter most is, “attitude”? Attitude that makes a home beautiful place to live. Respecting, loving, caring and serving with full dedication is a greater part of marriage.
Marriage is not about finding a perfect partner. It is all about dealing with the situations. People don’t make mistakes intentionally. It is the situations that demands but those situations should be dealt with a positive attitude. Imperfect partners can become a perfect partner keeping in mind about the positivism of the living.
If both the partners have mutual understanding then whole life of the couple is going to be a valentine but if the partners think themselves right then the whole life of them is going to be struggle. let's be a positive thinker and believer that makes our lives beautiful. Almighty blesses all the sentient beings :-) 

Monday, January 23, 2017

Days that have changed

People these days’ talks about the “journey of life”. They wanted to talk about their journey how it has changed their life then. Once while I was talking to my friend, she told me that, I am like her grandmother. It’s not that I am old like her grandmother but I act like her grandmother. We had lots of conversations and sometimes arguing with each other. Finally I decided to recall about my journey that I have been till date.
I was born to a family of nine including my father, mother, one elder sister and five brothers. Our village was one of the remote parts Samtse Dzongkhag. I remembered the days that I have spent. Struggle that I have faced.
I was little girl when I was admitted to the girl. Yes I got to go to school after requesting and waiting for three years but I am thankful to everyone who has supported me. I used to go to school with my friends. Most memorable moments in my life was when my sister used to ask me to bend on the stupas of the Gods. Om My God, I still remembered how I to pray. Most interestingly, I used to fly right after lying on my bed.
These days even the small kids wanted to have mobile phone. Last year I went to my village and I was surprised that, most of the young girls were married. Small kids with mobile phone and asking for number. OMG I was shocked.
I looked at them and I recalled my childhood days. Days when we have to live with a nettle plants and popcorn, Days that we used to carry oranges, Days that we used to stay in a dark and study with a bamboo fire and the leeches that used to attack us and suck our bloods.
This is how far I have come. These days we all are smart enough to live our life but during olden days, we were like….omg let’s do it again…